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Contents Our Memories In Memoriam


Several of you have suggested inclusion of a page in which we can remember those of the College community who are no longer with us.  The format and content can be developed as you wish.

Steve Allwood 1986-88 6th Form

"Steve travelled extensively after leaving Wymondham College; most notably Australia and working breaks in Andorra.  He seemed to be away 90% of the time. I recall a beer we had in the summer of 1992 where he told me that this summer he wanted to stay at home and have a summer with the lads etc.  The irony for me has always been that this was the summer he died, a couple of weeks later, as a result of injuries sustained in a car crash near his home.  Steve, you are still missed." - Mark Coventry

Michael Amberton 1960s North/York  
David Anderson   Staff (RE) June 1984
David Armsby 1960s Salisbury  
John Barker 1974-1979 Cavell

"John was a Cavell boarder who by his 3rd Year was the fastest sprinter of our year. He and I made it to the County Athletics trials at age 16 (1979) and in the 100 metres he left me far in his wake in third place. He won the race by a mile. I believe that it was later that Summer that John was killed. He was riding his bicycle through Wymondham Abbey when a car struck him, threw him into the air and the impact killed him.  A year later, John's fellow Cavell boarders and many others were hit by a second death, that of Robert Watson, also a Cavell boarder of the same year. " - Benedict Carter

"Yes, John did die whilst cycling for social services trip to Wymondham OAP's home?. John's dad was a vicar, he was in Cavell at the same time as myself, Andy Lynn, Mark Waterson, Jerry Youngman, et al. I think that he had a younger sister who started in Cavell also."  - Paul James

Leo Barnes 1960s   "Sadly Leo died from a massive heart attack while working in his office on 25th September 2008. I last met Leo some five years ago with Graham Smith and we spent an evening in a local pub just outside Wickham Market. He was living not far from me and working for Anglian Water. Leo was divorced and leaves a young daughter." - Philip Wade
Sarah Battye 1965-96 Staff July 1996.  Housemistress & later Head of Modern Languages.
Geoffrey Benyon 1950s   Took his own life in September 1992; perhaps related to an illness.  Studied History at Reading and taught in the Norwich area until taking early retirement for medical reasons.
Jeremy Betts 1970-73   16th January 2001 (complications following accidental injury)
Fred (F.J.D.) Betty 1947-76 Staff 12 April 1976. Resident Engineer (Ministry of Public Buildings and Works).
Gillian Bishop 1960s Worcester Gillian Bishop - Died 12 September 2000 after a brief illness. "She was at
Wymondham during the 60's in Worcester house. Married William Kiddell and had a daughter, Eleanor, then later married to Harold Williams and had a daughter, Rhiannon, and a son, Rhys.  Missed enormously by all who knew her, especially her family, who will never forget her." - Rhiannon Williams
Maureen Boldero (nee Seaton) 1950s   Maureen passed away suddenly on February 11th 2011 aged 72. She was one of the Spring 1951 Pioneer intake and was due to attend the Trail Blazer day in April. She married and is survived by Geoffrey Boldero, who was also one of the Pioneers.
Ken Bowman 1957-72 Staff (South) 1991.  French and German teacher, Housemaster and Deputy Warden.
Gillian Bradley (Street) 1970-75  
My sister Gill was killed on the 26th August 1991, on her way to marshal a cycling race at Bury St Edmunds. - Jackie Jay
John Brown 1950s  

I am very sad to inform you that my husband, John Brown, died in October 2009, He did not get to many reunions or meetings but having been, literally, one of the first at Wymondham College, he was always proud to be an old boy! - Rosie Brown

Henry Bull 1951-57   Died September 2004. His old friends would like to say "Rest in Peace Henry. God bless you."
Patsy Calton (Yeldon) 1960-67 South/Winchester 29th May 2005, aged 56.  Liberal Democrat MP for Cheadle.  She was diagnosed with breast cancer following the 1997 election campaign and underwent a double mastectomy the same year, but she was told last year that the illness had returned. She completed a course of treatment for cancer of the spine earlier this month.  She was a high-profile campaigner for breast cancer charities, running the London Marathon four times to raise money for Manchester's Christie Hospital, where she was treated, and the cancer charity Macmillan Nurses.

In Parliament, she was a Liberal Democrat spokeswoman on Northern Ireland and health, as well as chair of the all-party group on breast cancer.  Educated at Wymondham College, Norfolk and the University of Manchester Institute of Science and Technology, she went on to teach chemistry in a Stockport comprehensive school. She served from 1994 to 2002 on Stockport Metropolitan Borough Council, where she was deputy leader.

She married husband Clive in 1969, and they had two daughters, one son and one grandchild.
Norman Canty 1953-57 Staff

Norman taught at WC 1953-1957 before moving to Derbyshire, the Midlands and Hertfordshire to further his career. He finally retired to Norwich at an early age but, 10 years ago, he and his wife Dorothy moved to Harrogate where they could be close to members of their family.

Sadly Norman passed away suddenly on 14 June 2010.

Roz Carmichael 1970s Lincoln Motorcycle accident.
Neil "Vulch" Carruthers 1977-79 Cavell/Peel 6th December 1992 at age 31 (heart attack).  "My best friend and a far, far better man than I will ever be" - Tim Prouty
Jack Cassie 1951- East December 2007.

Jack originated from Hunstanton and joined the College in 1951 as a member of the Grammar School. 

"I visited Jack and his wife in Queensland about 6 years ago. He was then retired and living in a beautiful flat overlooking the ocean.  He had been state manager for Target, a major Australian store chain in roughly the same position that Woolworths had in the UK at that time.  I have some photos of that visit and will try to look them up." - Mike Herring
Brenda Chamberlain (Shepheard) 1951-60 Staff (South) October 2004 (cancer - after 40 operations).
Maureen Chase (Spooner) 1951-53 Thetford Transferee 20th September 1992; took her own life, two days after her husband's funeral.
Jim Cook 1980s   "Jim was killed while out on his moped after he left, I think it was May 87 and will check this out – it would be nice to put him up on the memorials page if you wouldn’t mind as he’s still fondly remembered for having time for anyone and was always up for a laugh too." - Steve Fox
Daniel Crosthwaite 1992   Swimming accident 22nd September 1998.
Miss Curzon   Westminster Matron Pneumonia; 4th December 2003. It is understood that she had lived in Morley before the hospital replaced the golf course.
Reggie Daniels 1951-56   March 1991 at the age of 53.  Reggie was one of the original intake at the College in the Summer of 1951. After National Service in the Royal Air Force he worked for Marconi's in Chelmsford until his sudden death at work.
Sarah Dearden     Died in the Kings Cross fire.
Mike Dillon-Lee     June 1990.  Murdered by the IRA.
Stephen Dobbin 1965-72 Canterbury/Kett
 3rd October 2007.

"I went to the funeral, a very moving service.  Dobbo had an interesting life in the theatre, stage managing for the RSC and ENO and directed a touring version of Les Liasons Dangereuse for the RSC.  A small group of ex-Canterbury, including Geoff Lewis and Andy Holmes, were there.  Before he died we had been talking about his role as the Colonel in Patience in '71; Anne and I are currently in rehearsal for Patience at the Maddermarket next April" - Robin Richardson 

View the Order of Service and the Eulogy delivered by David George.
Gladys Dolan 1951-76 Matron Gladys died at the Norfolk & Norwich Hospital on 7th April 2005.  She joined the College in September 1951 and retired in April 1976; initially in charge of Dorm 16 (Girls), before moving to East House (Boys), then Salisbury and finally (1971) Fry Hall.
David Dring 1972-79 Fry Michael Brand attended David's funeral.  "He was a gentle giant and played rugby for the school and Wymondham Town.  He worked at Morley Agricultural".
Eric Dudley 1952-74 Staff April 1980. Head of Physics and Senior Master.  Also served as relief Anglia TV weatherman in the 1960s.
David Dyble 1952-56 11th July 1999 (heart attack)
Graham Dye 1952-1956 2003 (four days after celebrating his Ruby Wedding anniversary with Rita; nee Hanner, 1951-57). 
Tom Eaton     Tom Eaton was a great friend to the College – Chair of Governors for many years and a Trustee until September 2008.  Tireless campaigner regarded as 'Mr Norwich' - EDP24
Ashley Evans 1977- Fry 15th February 1998.
David Footer 1952   April 1998 (leukaemia).
Derek Forder 1951   Derek was a past pupil who started at the College in 1951
John P. Forrest 1950s    
David Freeman 1954-62 Staff David was Head of Art from 1954 to 1962 and the designer of the College Blazer Badge, still in use to this day. He passed away in June 2011 after a long illness. His wife has told us that he would have been so plased to know that his design is still being used. They had very happy memories of the College and after they were granted 'married quarters' in 1959, which she describes as 'cosy and perfectly adequate', they had a great social life at the College and made friends for life. His website www.davidcfreeman.co.uk is well worth a look and includes some of his early sketches from Wymondham.
Mary Anne Freestone 1951-55    
Mike Frohawk 1950s North Spring 2002.
Rae Fuller 1950s   9th June 2000.
Gemma Fuschillo 1994-96   "Gemma Fuschillo (Dover College Prep. and Dover College 1987-1994) was killed in a car accident on 15th February 2004 . She leaves behind her parents Paul and Janet, whom many will remember as Housemaster and Teachers at Dover College, her brothers Ben and Sam and younger sister Gina. Gemma was an extremely popular student who captained Dover Prep's netball and hockey sides whilst starring in the school productions of ‘Oliver' and ‘The Hobbit'. After Dover she went on to become Head girl at Wymondham College before studying International Business Studies at Humberside, which involved her studying in New Zealand for a year. After taking her PGCE at Sheffield Hallam she got her first post teaching Business Studies at Uppingham School, where she was loved very much and made such an impact in the short time there that Uppingham School will be holding an annual “Gemma Fuschillo Games” event in her honour. Gemma will be missed by the hundreds of friends with whom she invested her heart and soul into from all around the world, especially her family, who have always been a close knit group and will struggle in the years ahead to cope with such a monumental loss." - Ben Fuschillo
John Galloway 1950s   John sadly passed away on 14th July 2011. His son, Paul, wrote to us as follows: "My wonderful father and best friend passed away peacefully in the early hours of yesterday morning. The only consolation is that he had spent the week on a golfing trip with his dearest golfing friends, and was at home, relaxed, watching golf in his favourite chair."
Sharon Golledge 1990s Fry 12 March 2007.  "In January 2007, whilst working as a Finance Assistant in Bournemouth, Sharon suffered a minor fit but after extensive tests she was told that it was probably a “one off” and not likely to ever happen again.  On the 12th March she died from an epileptic seizure during the night (Sudden Unexplained Death in Epilepsy).  She was 25.  Sharon is greatly missed by all her family and friends."  - Lorraine Norman

Lorraine (Sharon's Mother) has established a memorial fund in Sharon's name, to raise money for Epilepsy Research UK.  Details are here: http://www.epilepsyresearch.org.uk/support_us/golledge.htm.
Dave Goman 1951-83 Staff 24th March 2005.  A much-respected teacher of technical drawing and engineering technology.  His funeral service and cremation were held at Earlham Crematorium on Thursday 7th April 2005.

Characteristically, Dave was planning his funeral arrangements right up to the end, leaving his family (principally his niece Alison) very little to do. Alison was very moved by the messages that Dave received from former students and staff. His last great effort was a final period of consciousness when, on waking for the fifth time that night, his words were "Oh bugger. Am I still here?"

"A most remarkable schoolmaster" (Ronald Wolsey) * "A wonderful personality, a special teacher and a great influence" (David Mills) * "I, for one, owe him in a big way" (Margot Morton) * "His utter devotion to getting the engineering message across was impressive" (Anon) * "He taught a methodical way of thinking rather than a formulaic way and I will always be grateful to him" (Cliff Martin) * "He was probably the best teacher I ever had and was responsible for me choosing Engineering as a career" (Kevin Kennedy) * "I owe Dave a debt of gratitude for it was he who put me in touch with my first employer" (Alan Sidell) * "Dave was a great influence in my life - I know I am not alone in being thankful to him" (Moira Scott (Greenlee)) * "I frequently think of his influence, often during daily tasks that link back in so many ways" (John Hinchliffe) * "He was an amazingly inspirational teacher" (Gareth Melton) * "There are an awful lot of ex-Wycol pupils who have reason to be grateful for his assistance in finding universities, jobs etc." (Phil Robinson) * "I owe my career to him." (Richard Wilson)

James 'Jimmy' Hagg 1951-55   3rd February 2005.
Adrian Hancy     Motorcycle accident c1978.

"'Aggie' lived in Taverham, fairly near to me in Costessey, and we used to meet at Taverham Pits and go fishing.  He was great fun and one of the few people I knew who was as short as me!  Aggie could make anything out of anything and I still have an old battered fishing box with a replacement handle he made from wood and wire. Like all the people I was friends with, Aggie seemed more interested in fun than work. When he died I had a letter from his Mother saying that after the accident he was conscious and waiting for an emergency operation but he was still joking with the doctors and nurses.  He died in the operating theatre."

"It all seems so long ago and it's hard to believe that he has been dead for longer than he lived. Still Aggie, you are not forgotten." - Tim Copland.

Alan Harvey 1965-70   26th July 2000.
Tony Hawken 1955-62 North November 2001.  Retired from the RAF as a Wing Commander.
Allyson Hawksworth 1970s New Hall "She was such a vital person ... I remember her youth ... but also her
substance and she had real belief in her values. I remember she had a
vehement loyalty to her morals and beliefs ... she was always on the edge of stepping out of line ... always fun but never silly." - a friend

"Allyson was the youngest in our dorm at New Hall. She was great friends with Sheila Jenkins but she gave of herself to all of us. In our first year she
and I were in the same class.  She was an attention seeker but not in a bad way. She would dress in abstract ways and "float" around the common rooms somehow so elegant yet like a young colt all legs she would fall over with an attempt at great drama. I remember she had a great crush on Guy Griffiths and made many attempts to gain his attention. I am sure she did not fail completely!? I was very upset to hear that Allyson died. Last I heard she had left school and joined the army. It appears she had just completed her training when she died of a heart attack. Allyson would have only been in her early to mid twenties. She will remain forever young." - Lyn Dobson

Hilda Hawkyard 1950s/1960s Staff Summer 1971.
Jack Hawkyard 1954-64 Staff (North/York) Maths teacher and Housemaster; died suddenly at the end of June 2001. He had been living in retirement at Branston, Lincolnshire, for several years.
Helen Hayes 1975-82 Peel 2007.
Alistair Hayton-Williams 1984-1996 Staff (PE) Alistair Hayton-Williams was head of PE at the College.  His son Doug (91-96) had been to visit the College earlier this term, he is a Commissioned Officer in 1st Battalion, The Duke of Wellington's Regiment and came to speak to the 6th Form about his time in Iraq and Afghanistan.
Cornelius van den Heuval 195?-1959 East "On Friday June 3rd 2005, at a hospital in Thailand, Corry, aged 62. Died peacefully after a tragic accident. Dear son of Elsie (deceased), brother of Shirley, Glena & Angela (deceased)." - Lynn News.

We understand that Corry was involved in a bad car accident and had been in a coma for 6 weeks before he passed away.

Jim Hodgson 1951-56 Staff (History) James Norman ('Jim') Hodgson; 16th May 1988.
Vivienne Patricia Holby 1960- South Passed away on August 14th aged 59 years.  Vivienne was born in Romford and moved around both the UK and Ibiza during her life finally resettling in Romford and working as a self-employed accountant for Keith Stout & Associates. In 2002 serious illness forced her to stop work and move to the family home in Grantham, Lincs. She bravely adapted to a restricted life and remained forever cheerful. She came to Wymondham College in September 1960, South House, Form 1A
Cyril V. Hughes 1950s Staff 2007. "A man I remember with great respect and who with Dave Goman and other great teachers did so much in shaping our lives and moulding the future of a very new Wymondham College." - David Spinks.
Nick Hughes 1970s Fry "Nick was in Fry Hall and left in 1977 . Nick was only 21, a freak motorbike accident on Friday March 27th 1981, claimed the life of another genuinely great guy, missed by so many." - Jenny Perryman
John Hunt 1970s   Car accident on the A11 in 1978.
Jean 'Chick' Hurn 1951-54 Grammar 1992 (cancer).  "Jean was my best friend at College and at home as she lived in the next village." - Joyce Pycroft (nee Daniels).
Christopher Jackson 1959-64 North 1983 (accident in Germany).
Grayson Johnson 1958-61 North 1963 (motor cycle accident near Kings Lynn)
Claire Kembry 1984-89   Died of cancer in Spring 2002.
Philip Kenyon 1951-55   12th May 1997. Technical School staff.
Frank Laughton   Staff (Norwich) 2001. Maths teacher and Housemaster.
Peter LeGrice 1960s   "Peter died peacefully in hospital on Sunday, February 8th 2009 after many battles with MS. Our thoughts are with his wife Diane, sons Martin and Tom and their families.  Peter was one of the nicest people you could have wished to meet.  Was also one of the finest all-round sportsmen Wymondham College produced and we were fortunate enough to play with him. Will always be remembered." - Philip Wade
Yvonne Leverett 1956-62 East 3rd September 1998.
Roger Lincoln 1958-64 West and Canterbury Passed away suddenly on 8 May 2007, aged 60.  He was driving to meet a primary school friend when he felt pains in his chest; he pulled up near Thetford and died in the car.

Roger was in the Police Service for 30 years from 1964-1995, then worked as a Communication Support Worker with Deaf people.

"He was one of the first people I was friendly with in West House in 1958. He was always cheerful and good fun. I always remembered that he was originally from Southery (I had no idea where it was at the time) but when my first teaching post was at Feltwell I discovered that the head and many locals had known him and talked of him fondly. I never met him again but always expected that our paths would cross again some day. Sad news indeed." - Andy Harper
Colin Lockwood 1977-   "Tragically died on A11 at Wymondham in the early 1980s; motorbike collided with car turning out of a side road into his path. I'm unsure of date or year.  Son of Mr Lockwood (Fry Housewarden) & Mrs Lockwood (teacher)." - Gary Johnson
Stephen Longdin 1953-59 East

Sadly I have to report the death in early September 2008 of my brother Steve.  He died after a courageous fight against cancer a few weeks before his 67th birthday having retired from full time work a few weeks earlier.  He leaves his wife, son and daughter and his two sons from a previous marriage.

Steve and I attended the College from 1953 and I am confident in stating that we were the College's first twins (no doubt I'll be corrected if I'm wrong).  We spent our entire time in the Nissen huts until our departure in 1959.  I well remember our arrival by coach to the sprawling complex of huts which we had never seen before that time, and I often reflect that I was fortunate enough to be with someone I knew at that time, unlike a lot of those on their own.  We kicked off in Butler 29.  Good old days, although we probably didn't think that way at the time.

Bill Longdin
W.R. Longdin

Jane Mayes 1958-60   4th March 1998 (cancer).
R.V. Metcalfe 1951-70 Warden 1999.
Barry McBeath   Staff Autumn 1987.
Lawrence Milne 1970-77 Cavell Car accident on the A11 between WC and Wymondham 29th May 1993.

"For many years, both while we were at WC and after we had left, Laurie was one of my closest friends.  I have many happy memories of spending time with him; skiving games, hitching into Norwich and drinking at the pub near the Market, getting lifts into Norwich with the German assistant, repeatedly failing to go and see Mr Hiscox when we were ordered to report to him, pinching lunch tickets and awarding each other the Robert Van Der Graff Award (a brilliant game which consisted of hiding one of the Cavell House sports cups in the winner's bag in such a way that it was not noticed until he got home!)."

"For about 5 years after leaving school Laurie and I shared flats and houses
and we kept in touch up to his death. We loved the same sort of music and we had the same sort of views on life. He was a kind and gentle guy."

"Laurie, my friend, I will always remember you and the fun we had."

Tim Copland.

Gwilym Morley 1971-1992/3 Staff (Chemistry) 17th June 2000.  "Two of his children, Stephen and Julian, also went to the school (not sure about his daughter Rowena), and he lived in one of the staff houses for many years." - Jan Raynsford
Bob Mullenger 1951-81 Staff (Woodwork) Robert James ('Bob') Mullenger died at The Norfolk & Norwich Hospital on the 11th of July 1981, at the age of 59.  He had retired as Head of Boys' Crafts in the April of that year.  Just after his retirement, Roger Garrard wrote these words:

An era ended in April of this year, when Mr and Mrs Mullenger moved out of Staff House No. 6 almost thirty years to the day since they first came to live here. For Mr Mullenger was truly one of the pioneers of Wymondham College, arriving with the first pupils, a group of 12-13 year-olds called the "Pilot Course", who were selected as guinea pigs to see if a boarding school could be established here. That it did become well-established and so quickly is largely due to the skills and enthusiasms of the early staff.

He still talks with keenness about those early years. You had to be versatile to cope with the rapidly-developing school, with sudden emergencies like power failures, with nissen-hut dormitories, workshops lacking most of their present equipment, and with playing-fields with too many trees and with more stones than grass. "Stone-picking duty" he speaks of with a twinkle in his eye, and I can remember him vividly in his wartime flying-jacket, supervising a group of boys literally digging a way out along Golf Links Road to the A11 when the College was cut off after a blizzard.

Skills, enthusiasms and versatility are his hall-marks, as I have said. His official position for so many years was Head of Boys' Crafts, but he managed to combine this with being Housemaster of the old York House for some years, and so many other things seemed to come his way, too. When the halls were first built it was decided to make all the dining-room tables in the workshops. Mr Mullenger designed them all and had much to do with their construction. So modest a man is he that there is probably only a handful of people still here who know of this. All those oak dining tables and benches are a perpetual reminder of his design skills and imagination. No factory-made product would have stood up to the wear they have had. Next time you stack them at the end of the dining room for a house social, just think of Mr Mullenger and how well they were made.

Nor are these all. The two large wood signs at the main entrances, one bearing the College crest, one the County crest, are also his work, so are the gates by the pillar-box entrance, and so were the benches that burnt to ashes when the pavilion was burnt down a few years ago. These had the College crest carved into their backs, and they were much appreciated by many generations of cricketers and spectators. He was also responsible for making the Peel Trophy, a silver trowel on a wooden stand, which used to be awarded annually to a pupil who had served the College well. We are still using the scenery 'flats' he made for the first plays performed in the Sports Hall. Three years ago, with 'Iolanthe', we used the sentry-box he had made for an earlier production in the 60s. Everything he has made has been solidly built to last, and has lasted, except for those pavilion benches. Nothing second-rate or merely adequate would do for him.

A Norfolk man by birth. Bob Mullenger has a gentle and thoughtful manner of speech, deceptive in that it hides a nimble and resourceful brain. Go to him with a problem and watch him. You think perhaps that he has not properly heard you, because no sound or sign escapes him. Then a preoccupied stare will give place to a grin, and he will start to sketch something, or, if it is a mechanical problem, to apply a spanner or screwdriver in just the right place - no bluster or disparaging comments, just a remarkable concentration and with invariably the right answer. He has many of the interests of the countryman, and we shall miss the familiar sight of him in deerstalker and tweeds, golf club or walking stick in hand, striding round the park where he has lived and worked for thirty years.

Illness has compelled him to leave us on early retirement, and he leaves us knowing he cannot possibly be forgotten in a place to which he has given so much and earned so much affection over so many years.

Damien Nicholls     1st August 1999.
Bob Norton 1953-1987 Staff Friday 19th June 2009.

The following interview was published in the 1987 College Magazine:

Mr. Robert Norton has been an invaluable member of the College since 1953. Even after all this time he can still remember his first impression of the school.  "I arrived by bus from Norwich, they dropped me off at 'The George'; from there I walked up the lane to the school. It looked very similar to the RAF base I was previously at in Lincolnshire, and as I was happy there, I felt that I would fit in and be happy here."

Three years after he arrived at the school, he married Miss Margaret Wilkinson. His first impression of her was that she was lively, vivacious and creative, and this is what he liked about her. It was not 'love at first sight', but this came later as more of the eventual Mrs. Norton's qualities were revealed.

While in the RAF, which he joined at seventeen, Mr. Norton did a war-time course at Southampton University, and wanted to go to either Oxford or Cambridge after this. One of his 'claims to fame', is that, if he had gone to Oxford, Richard Burton would have been on the same course as him! He had a somewhat embarrassing experience in the service when taking a reading, whilst navigating, of what he thought was a light on the ground. He realised five minutes later that the angle had not changed, and it had moved with them. It then dawned on him that he had been taking the reading of a wing light!

It is difficult to summarise in a short space all that Mr. Norton has done for the school over the past thirty-four years. He designed, and spent many hours, with the help of pupils, building cinder paths by the area which is now the cook-freeze unit. He also marked out all the sports fields himself. He spent most of his weekends and nearly all his spare time in this work, and this was in addition to being a housemaster, first of all in the nissen huts, then with Canterbury House boys in half of Kett Hall, who eventually merged with Westminster House girls to form Kett House in 1971, the first mixed house, with pupils from 11 to 18. Always keen to accept new challenges, it was Mr. Norton who became one of the first Housemasters of a Sixth Form House in Lincoln in 1978, a post he held until last Summer.

It would be interesting to discover just how many pupils have been in his House over those 33 years. Is there any man anywhere with a longer service as a housemaster, and in such varying forms? We feel sure Mr. Norton's record of service here is unique. He enjoys teaching sport as well as English, and has no preference for either, as they are both creative and 'allow you to express yourself in different ways.' He also recently organised the Sponsored Day events, showing how dedicated he is to the school.  One of Mr. Norton's last enterprises at the College has been the organisation of three reunion dinners for past pupils. The warmth of their regard for him was made only too clear on these occasions and it is with something approaching awe that we say farewell to him and to Mrs. Norton.
Serena Ottley 1983-87   19th April 2007.
John Paxton 1962-98 Staff 8th November 2001. Latin & Classical Studies.
Eric Peacock ('Choppy') 1952-1959   3rd June 1994.
Erica Pigden 1970s    
Joan Potter 1983-97 Cavell Spring 1999.  Boys' Matron.
Richard Ramm     Drowning accident.
Sir Lincoln Ralphs   Founder October 1978 at the Norfolk & Norwich Hospital, aged 69.  He was Chief Education Officer for Norfolk from 1950 to 1974 and was truly the College's founding father.  The College Song, his own composition, reflects the principles that he applied throughout his career.  This was the leader in the Eastern Daily Press of the 18th October 1978:

SIR LINCOLN RALPHS was one of those rare individuals whose life and character gave validity to what might at first appear to be the most excessive of tributes. Whether we measure by the power of his intellect, or his achievements and standing in education, we are confronted with a giant. He represented a force for educational good that we are unlikely to see again because the days of giants are over. This is not to sigh for some golden age of legend or trade in commonplace panegyrics. Lincoln Ralphs' period - perhaps we should say reign - as chief education officer for Norfolk coincided with the apogee of a chief education officer's power and influence, a time when these instruments could be deployed on a greater and grander scale than anything that has gone before or has been permitted since.

The physical achievement of those twenty-three years from 1950 can be measured in stone throughout Norfolk but Lincoln Ralphs was immeasurably more than a builder and innovator. Inspired by a vision of education as a force and an opportunity extending almost from cradle to grave he set about creating an umbrella beneath which everyone could find a place. He had, for example, a particular feeling for special schools, and he regarded it as one of his greatest accomplishments when a special school that he had established in the county asked for a school uniform and badge, such was its corporate pride. This is revealing of but a single strand in the character and personality of a remarkable chief education officer, and more of an astonishing man. Endowed with a great sense of humour, blessed, twice blessed it seemed at times, with the scintillating gifts of wit, verbal power and, particularly when the occasion demanded, consummate charm, Lincoln Ralphs attracted a limitless loyalty and almost inevitably, controversy.

His work which began in the light of the 1944 Act drew to its close amid the shadows and the storms of the comprehensive controversy, and his uncompromising stand, against national forces and fancies, tended to colour his final years in office. He denied he was anti-comprehensive and said he was anti-centralist. He was certainly furious that the whole fabric of education should be so changed. A towering man, he saw children in his every move, and understood that the duty of an administrator was to support teachers and staff in schools. We heard it said of him yesterday: "You knew that if the chips were down he'd be there fighting for you." That is a good enough epitaph for any man.

Brenda Rawlings (Myhill) 1957-63 East 2nd September 2007.

"Her husband, Mike, and children, Helen, Paul, Steven and Kevin were with her when she died of cancer the day after her 61st birthday.  Nancy Trett, Pat Fuller, Irene Cooper and I and June Armiger were able to attend her funeral in the packed Methodist Chapel at Great Ryburgh."

"Brenda loved being at Wymondham College.  She was a wonderful friend, always putting others first and always cheerful.  She was devoted to her husband and family. After leaving Wymondham we all went our different ways and if it hadn't been for Enid organising her excellent reunions we wouldn't have met Brenda again.  Julia Gibbons and Ruth Hales are among Brenda's many friends in East House and I'm sure there are many others, both in East and the other houses who have fond memories of her."

Margaret White (Kilgour)
Paul Richardson 1960-67 East/Salisbury Paul passed away suddenly on 26th May 2009 as the result of a heart attack, aged 60. He had taken early retirement from Network Rail for whom he had worked ever since leaving the College.
Ian D. Robinson 1956-63 East/Salisbury "My brother,  Ian D. Robinson [aka Bogbrush!], was a boarder in the early history of the school. He attended from 1956 to 63.  He was in East & Salisbury and was House Captain in his last year.  On leaving Wymondham he did a teacher training course at Loughborough and then went out to Jamaica for two years, working for V.S.O.  He came back to U.K. after a year to marry a Devon girl (Cherry) who was also on V.S.O. and returned to Jamaica to live permanently.  He had a many & varied employment career being at some time, a teacher/lecturer, a training officer for a bauxite company, General Manager of the Montego Bay Ice Company, Manager of a mango/pau-pau plantation and construction manager for a tourist development. He had just set up a sideline organising “eco-tourist” tours around the island with his multi coloured Land Rover when he was diagnosed with bowel cancer.  Although he had a portion of the lower colon removed and had undergone chemotherapy, he was always aware that “it would get him in the end “. So after about 4 years of fighting the disease, he sadly passed away in July, 1997 at the age of 52. He had a love of the history of Jamaica and the all of his research documents and books were handed over to the Hanover Museum in Lucea and the study room was named after him. Cherry & his two sons (Mark & Neil) remain in the Caribbean."

Phil Robinson

Melita Robinson (Sewell) early 1970s    
Tony Rudd - School Governor August 2003.  Former technical director of Group Lotus, and deputy chairman of Lotus Engineering, died at the age of 80. Mr Rudd, who lived in Norfolk, was also one of the team that helped develop the original BRM in the early 1950s.
Alan Russell 1950s Staff 30 October 1962.  Taught French & was renowned for his 'stable' of prestige motor cars.
Keith Rutherford 1956-93 Staff 15 February 2005.
Peter Sadler     9 October 2001.
Pansy Sewell 1950s    
Elaine Seymour (Turvey) 1957-64 North/Winchester 27th February 1997 (cancer).
Doreen Sharman (Mason) 1951-?   9 September 2001.
Clive Simmonds 1951-55   2001 approximately, in South Australia.
David Spurling 1970s/80s Staff December 2005.  English teacher and Director of several College productions.
Richard Stammers 1956-61 North Richard died in 2001 ago after suffering 20 years of heart disease.  He had a wife and three children.
Derek 'Doc' Staveley ?-1978 Staff 1985; soon after retirement. Geography head of department.
Dennis Storer 1958-59 Staff 8th September 2007.  An ex-Army Captain, Dennis Storer joined the College's Physical Education department in September 1958 and spent one year with us.  He coached the 1st XV and was a prominent speaker in the Chad Club and 6th Form Semi-Circle. After leaving, he became a sports commentator with Anglia TV, but then emigrated to the USA in 1965 to begin an outstanding career at UCLA as head coach of the university's rugby and soccer programmes, becoming the US National rugby coach in 1976. At a national and international level, Dennis was the British Olympic Association's Executive Director, a director of BAFTA, a founder member of the British Community Advisory Board and founding President of the Spirit of Youth Foundation.  He was awarded the OBE in 1994 for services to British/American Education, Sport and Commerce.
Gwen Taylor 1970s   2003
Anne Thornton 1951-56   February 2001.  Head Girl 1955/56.
Nicholas Tonkin 2000-01   Motorcycle accident in September 2002. Nicholas was the younger brother of Oliver Tonkin (1994-2001).
Wally Ward 1950s   1973, at Aylsham.
Robert Watson Late 1970s    "I believe that he suffered a heart attack whilst fitness training in the gym.  Elder brother of Alistair Watson (Cavell then Peel 1976-83)." - Gary Johnson
Ann Willson 1960-67 West April 1999.
Ron Wilson 1954-58 West 2002, ending a long career as an author.  There is more about Ron here.
Chris Wiltshaw 1960s Staff "In September 1969 (when I was in the Lower Sixth) , Chris Wiltshaw was killed in a tragic car accident on or near the A11. Chris had only been at the College for about a year , coming direct from teachers' training college to teach woodwork and metalwork. He was a tall, studious-looking, quiet, and unassuming guy who fitted in immediately with the technical staff of Bob Mullenger (head of dept), Andrew Seeley, Ted Herrington and Dave Goman. Chris was well liked by both pupils and staff. He never taught me, but I got to know him pretty well as he contributed a lot to the school electronic cricket scoreboard project which I was involved in.

When Chris was killed, I was away at a B.A.Y.S. Youth Science Fortnight 'holiday' at Exeter University . Returning to the College, just after Chris's death , on a massive high due to all the sex, drugs, rock and roll (and a bit of science - no drugs actually but tons of the other three! ) was a very weird experience as there was a very sombre atmosphere indeed at the College. Chris had wrapped his open-topped Lotus 7 type sports car round a tree while going from the pub one evening to get some chips. Apparently his car hit the tree with such force that the whole front of it was stoved in. No other cars were involved.

I remember that it was the first time in my young life that it had ever crossed my mind that I was going to die sometime, so I had better make the most of it while I was still around!

Chris' death certainly hit us all at the College very hard indeed."

Ian Gomeche (Gloucester 1963-70)

John Worley   Staff (Salisbury) April 1995. Biology teacher.
C.C.H. (Tom) Worrall 1963-76 Staff (Durham) 1991. Housemaster.
David Wright ?-1956   July 1999.
Tanya Wright 1956-59 West Suddenly after a short illness in April 2002. Sadly this was soon
after her first contact with a school friend from the College.

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